The Sensualist

Make Love Better

because life is too fricken short to be having bad sex

We have been given the gift of having bodies which are capable of beautiful sensations: pleasure, desire, arousal, ecstasy. 

These gifts are too often used and abused as agents of misery, instead of being experienced or used in a way that SPARKS JOY & cultivates LOVE, CREATIVITY, VITALITY, and CONNECTION

Freja Njorden, The Sensualist

Who do I work with? 

  • delicious explorers who want to be better lovers!!!

  • women who are sick of having mediocre to downright shitty sex. 

  • couples who are frustrated with the way sex has become a bone of contention instead of relationship enhancer.

  • men who are dealing with frustration and shame over the way their bodies respond sexually (premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction).

  • people who are wondering where their libido went, and fear for what that means to their relationship.

  • people who are struggling with shame, guilt and blocks to intimacy, including past sexual traumas or limiting beliefs.

  • people who feel stuck in their relationship, lacking the communication and practical skillset to do it competently... who never evolved sensually or sexually as they aged and are finding that the lack of evolution just isn't working. 

 

When people are closed, compromised, frustrated, and lacking sexual agency they are experiencing a fraction of the fullness of their lives.

 

 

WORK WITH ME

MP3's & accompanying PDF products to enhance your sexuality

I know just how difficult it is to address intimate concerns, and it’s even harder when you’re doing it in isolation, relying on google for answers, doubting yourself, and wasting precious time. Firstly, nothing is wrong with you. I’ve consulted with, taught, mentored, and supported thousands of people with sexual concerns over the years and what you are experiencing is normal.

When there is a concern that involves your body or intimate life, it can turn into secret shame. blame, resentment, anxiety, fear... Questioning the self, wondering what is wrong, wondering or worrying that this is all there is. 

Most people take their car to an expert, if they want to excel in a sport or an activity like yoga they take lessons, and they learn from an expert.  Someone who has studied and worked in the field for years.  Not from a place of “not being good enough to figure it out on my own,” but by making a smart decision to model the expertise of others.  Just as in any other subject.