The Sensualist Articles

Initiating Sex - Priming The Pump
2023-01-25 11:28 If you’re noticing high levels of “rejection” when you initiate sex, or you have a lot of anxiety and overthink initiating sex,  consider your approach.    Chances are, you have been setting your ow...
Is Female Sexuality Narcissistic?
2022-11-22 14:39 Is Female Sexuality Narcissistic?     It has been said that female sexuality is narcissistic, in that the pinnacle of the female experience is to be desired. It’s not that we place any value on des...
Why Is It So Complicated
2022-11-22 14:38 “Freja, why do you have to make it so complicated? Sex should happen naturally, instinctively.”   Procreation is natural and instinctive. Are you making love to procreate? Most of us aren’t, most o...
It Felt Like My Vagina Was 15 Feet Away
2022-11-22 14:37 It Felt Like My Vagina Was 15 Feet Away   Here’s a story that exemplifies how even an innocent off-hand joke can land in the body and cause lasting effects. Most of us are well aware that trauma and...
When Body Parts Don't Work
2022-11-22 14:35 When Body Parts Don't Work   I had a conversation with someone, discussing some men we knew who had been perpetually single, and the erroneous attributes ascribed to them.   In several instances, ...
Sensual Massage For Women Goes Mainstream
2022-11-22 14:34 Sensual Massage For Women Goes Mainstream   Not long ago within our culture, there was a myth that women were not very sexual. If they were, they did not enjoy it, much. It was also not long ago tha...